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                       Welcome to the G Spot…The Woman Zone: Men and Monogamy

Hey world sorry for the delay with this weeks G Spot but I’m here to bring you my take on why men have such an issue with monogamy as requested in my readers choice edition. Well first off you really cant blame men for this some what genetic disease they suffer from. They are out numbered by women so they have more options. And when you have the option for options why would you just want one? It has nothing to do with the woman being dated nor the potential of the man who can’t be faithful. It’s about personal development. There are times when a man doesn’t have the time to maintain and nourish a relationship and playing the field is a necessity of lifestyle. Before I go any further let me just say to my ladies. All men are capable of being faithful. Only when they are ready to. No amount of good pussy or head will change that. Having his child won’t expedite it. Winning over his friends and family doesn’t make that much of a difference. It’s all in timing. Majority of male’s actual age and mental age don’t match so if you are with a 30 year old man you are actually dating a man with the mindset of a 24-26 year old. So expect him to want what a typical male who is in that age range to want. Just a little knowledge for my ladies. Any way when you factor in the being outnumbered and the age-mind disconnect with men it’s a given that it’s a challenge to be with one woman. Especially when you probably work with plenty of attractive women, work out around them, hang out and see groups of sexy women and feel all of them are attainable. But let’s be real even the best of the best of the average guys won’t get but ¼ of the women they step to. So fellas please understand this when your leaving that 7 to holla at that 10! When men are in relationships it does a few things: 1. Boost their confidence, so they feel they can get any chick at any time( by the way confidence exudes and it makes men more attractive so if you ever felt like damn when I’m single I get no play now that I have a girl all these other women want me…that’s why it also applies for women) 2. Activates grass is green syndrome…by this I mean men feel that by being in a relationship they’re missing out on what single men are “indulging in”{ and if no one wants to put it out their I will: most single men are miserable. Out at the clubs buying drinks in hopes that it will get them some ass after, driving around in a stalker like fashion yelling out car windows trying to pick up scantily dressed chicks, hitting up strip clubs spending that rent on some VIP love. If you’re a lucky single guy you have some chick you can call up for a little sexual rendezvous if not I’m sure you spend the night face booking and twittering up some kind of satisfaction until you fall asleep.} 3. Forces men to evaluate their wants. Men don’t want the responsibility of thinking about the future. It’s a job in itself trying to determine what you want to spend the rest of your life with let alone for the moment. Contrary to what most women believe men don’t intentionally want to hurt a woman by cheating on her. Please don’t banish me from womanhood for saying some should feel flattered that she was cheated on. He didn’t want to end the relationship though he was curious about this other woman who wasn’t worth the risk of losing you. Yes cheating is awful but it’s forgivable( we will touch more on that in a later edition of Makeup Bag) So I guess with all that I’m basically trying to say it’s going to take time or that person made especially for you for you to feel that there is nothing else out there for you. There is no age when it goes away. It’s all internal…what you want for your life. When you felt you’ve had enough of whatever you were doing and casual dating. We all peak at different times, or when we end up with that right person things just become clearer. I’m not sure if that really answered your question Pee Jay but as a woman that’s the best I could do…but for tonight’s homework everyone is to ask 3 men why they have cheated if they have or 3 men why they don’t cheat and see what the general reason was, this will give us all better insight to the reason why men cheat, which in turn will help us figure out why monogamy is an issue…until next week…happy humping!