My 3 Loves
Bonjour Bitches! You know it must be hump day if you’re reading Fee B’s Wild Card Topic and as usual I’m bringing you the crazy stuff that crosses my mind or things that may happen to me since the last installment of Wild Card. The Topic for today is “My 3 Loves” and no I’m not saying that I’m in love with 3 people…though I have been in love with 2 at the same damn time…but that’s a future Wild Card Topic ;)… What I’m talking about today is the debate about everyone in the world having 3 loves at some point in your life: Your 1st love, your real/true love, and your soul mate. Now I’m in no way saying that any or all of these have to be romantic…nor am I saying that they all can’t be romantic. Being 30 and a Mother has taught me a lot about love. I’ve said it to people because I thought that’s what I was feeling at 13. There was once a time I thought my 1st love was this guy I was dating back in Junior High. He was the 1st person that told me I love you and the 1st person I said it back to so naturally I assumed he was my 1st love and when he was killed I just memorialized him as just that “My 1st Love” but saying I love you doesn’t necessarily make it love. It wasn’t until I had my son that I realized he was my 1st love. I would in fact do anything for him and anything to protect him(as any parent…well most parents would do). He came first. It wasn’t about the gifts I got or the feeling I got which is how I know I didn’t really know what love was until I actually gave birth at 24…fucking shame 11 years of fooling myself but the cost of learning life the hard way is worth the reward of lesson for me. I suppose I was thinking that the three loves given all had to be of a romantic capacity and I couldn’t have been more wrong. Now I do believe that one person can hold 2 of those love spots maybe all 3 if you’re lucky. My best friend happens to be my real love/true love. We met in 8th grade dated, broke up, messed around, lost touch reunited, dated, slept together, fell in love, stopped dating and still slept together and all the while we remained friends. The talk about your days, text funny shit too, brings you a drink when your day is going horrifically wrong best friend. We can talk for hours and still have plenty to talk about and we can also sit on the phone watching television in silence and it not be uncomfortable. The love is real and unconditional because of all we’ve gone through and remained as tight as we have. When I see my future I can’t see him not in it. In some capacity I prefer for him to be in my life romantically speaking or otherwise, though I have to believe that if it didn’t work twice maybe the third time won’t be the lucky charm. It’s best to leave well enough alone. Now when it comes to my soul mate it’s my coworker…I LOVE HER!!! She’s younger than me and like the little sister I never wanted who I can also sneak peeks at her booty because she’s not my little sister! But people always get us confused they say we look alike and we damn sure act the same which is a fucking fool…we have the same likes where it matters and where we class it works…for example she doesn’t want pepperoni on her pizza and I don’t want spinach on mine…so we don’t fight over anything except who is crazier or thicker…she has me beat but I’d never admit that to her…but she is my twin soul. So now that I’ve explained My 3 Loves do you agree or disagree with the theory that we are all given 3 loves in our lives? Have you found your 3 loves? Were they romantic, platonic or biological? I must admit I love making love to your minds…thanks for letting me back in. Check me out next week and see what the Wild Card Topic is until then…
Smooches
Fee B.
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