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Now a days when dating, you must keep a ladder in your back pocket. Peoples' "guards" are placed so high that even the guarded individual can't see over it. Ok, so your last 6.....teen, relationships didn't go the way you expected. Have you ever thought that it is something you maybe doing wrong? Stop playing the victim. People put to much emphasis on "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" that once he or she cheats, lie or steal, everyone encountered after has to suffer. Its ok to be careful and consider your feelings, but why put so much of those feelings in an individual that does not have the intentions of "Marriage." How do you know what their intentions are, you ask. Ask them! There is nothing wrong with an interview process before dating. The answers giving will give you an idea of the longevity of the potential relationship. Example, if you ask do you plan on getting married, and they respond "One Day" then don't assume that you are the one they will marry. So if they end the relationship, rather it was verbally or non-verbal, don't go into the next one raising expections and/or not giving the individual a chance. Nothing ends a relationship faster then knowing or feeling that one or both parties are not giving their all. The moral of the story is dont make the next person suffer because you are unsure. Either put the guard down or continue playing with Team Single. MY NAME IS PERRY AND I APPROVE THIS MESSAGE. #CommentsWelcomed.