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I haven’t had a chance to talk to y'all for a minute, so here it is.

“Can I talk to y'all for a minute” pt. 2

What is your purpose?

I’m not here to preach, that’s your pastor’s job, not mine. I’ve found myself talking to not only my constituents, but also middle aged adults about the reasons of why we are here on this earth. I’m a firm believer that everyone has a purpose and it’s up to us to find out what that is. We often become too complacent with our current position in life, and what I mean by that is; we often “stay” because we end up leaning on wages, insurance benefits, and loyalty, but the number one culprit is fear. Fear of failure, fear of other people judging you, fear of actually succeeding. I found out, as much as we say we “don’t give a f**k” we actually “give all the f**ks” in the world. We might not want to admit it tho. We get consumed in what people think are the right things for US to do, therefore molding our path into something that isn’t necessarily designed for US. Too often I see people dressed the same way, talk the same way, and act the same way and that seems according to what they see in the media. We’ve gotten away from originality, and what defines us as individuals. “When we forget what we should be, we find out what we are.” Everyone is here for a reason. Nobody but the Big Homie JC knows. It’s in all possible that you’ve passed up your purpose trying to fulfill someone else’s opinion of what YOU should be. There is somebody right now making 75k a year with a good car and benefits miserable as shit. Why? Because they know there’s something out there greater for them, but is afraid to buss a move. On the other hand you have someone making a simple 28k a year with a decent car and benefits living life to the fullest. Why? Because they’ve found their purpose, and realize there is no greater satisfaction than to do what’s in their heart. Where they succeed, most of us fail. Life isn’t about taking the short cut, its all about the scenic route. Sometimes struggle is a must, sometimes the best things are the hardest to get. If what you want is easy to obtain, then it’s not something you need, but what you want. Don’t be scared to go out on a limb and shoot for the moon, hell if you miss, you’re still amongst the stars.

When you think about what you need, does it make you scared or frightened?

It should.

Does it pain you not to have it?

 It should.

Pops: “you can’t be scared to take a shot; you just have to do it”

Son: “Dad, I don’t even know what to aim at!”

Pops: “Doesn’t matter, sometimes it great just to hear the gun go off”

We aren’t all here to be the same. Find your purpose.

-ZeeDaay-

                                                                                     Conspiracy Theory

It’s Wednesday so you already know what it is so let’s get to it. I must admit on my day off after I drop the little one off at school I grab me a Caramello(a better version of a cappuccino…well in my eyes) from a coffee shop I love catch up on my celeb gossip and then I go back to sleep. When I wake up I pick out a few movies to curl up on the couch with pour me a glass of wine and flame one up. Usually I pick a horror movies or lifetime like movies. So I ended up watching some low budget horror movie that I’ve never heard of with these prehistoric vultures attacking people because they drank some contaminated water. Long story short these teens being attacked find the scientist or doctor guy that polluted the water. He tells them he was forced by the government to dispose of the cure to cancer that he created. The cure mixed with chemicals caused this outbreak. So I get to wondering while I’m watching this movie how realistic could that situation be. Is it possible that a scientist or doctor has come up with cures for any or all these ailments: Cancer, AIDS, Alzheimer’s and chose to keep it under wraps or scrap it completely because it’s more profitable to keep people sick? Think about how much money the health care industry makes from the insured and uninsured, the grants, the research, the trials? I hate to put it out there but Magic Johnson is the healthiest and thickest guy I’ve ever seen with HIV. Is it because he could afford to by the cure and keeping him alive is beneficial to keeping the rich rich. With all that they can do with technology and with all the research and knowledge they have done into all these sicknesses that are slowly but surely killing us is it far fetched to think that the government is conspiring to get rid of the weak links…aka those of us who can’t afford to buy this cure so that money can keep making the world go round? I’d even go as far to say maybe some of these illnesses were created to do the dirty work for the government and only those they feel are worth saving will be given the cure. Trust me this isn’t just the movie talking. I’ve always had a issue with the government. They lie and they keep shit under wraps and curing all the sick could be one more way they are fucking us over. This is just one of many conspiracy theories I have stay tuned for part II…I’m going where no one dares to go…toe to toe with the Illuminati. Thanks again folks for letting me into your heads so I can make love to your minds…until next week

Smooches    

First and foremost, f**k this snow fam.

Here's another installment of “Office Visits”

@KINGDINGALING

“KD (Kevin Durant) has the same grade hair as Forest Whittaker”

@1CretiA

“Smh… folks out here letting the same old things excite them”

@All_shongod

“The path to hell is often paved with good intentions”

@NerdAtTheCoolTable

“You only want whats easy…. That’s why what you get never lasts”

@RegularAssRon

“People gotta be able to have a productive convo with you in real life before they like your personality”

@CuffsTheLegend

“Ladies, talking and using slang like a dude gets you further away from the wedding dress”

@ZeeDaay

”N*** s will cheat on their girl before they cheat on their barber”

@A2daO

“How much you think is a reasonable price for the Instagram app if you ugly?”

@Elle_is_haute

“USPA – U Should Pay Attention cuz that’s not real Polo”

@RonONealDC

“Woman u interested in call u “bro” its only 2 options: Put that missile on her thigh immediately or ask which friend she hookin u up wit”

-HR-

                                                                  Ex Marks the G Spot

Allow me to reintroduce myself…it’s your girl Fee B aka Queen Fee bba (but born as) Felicia. And I’m your Wild Card Ringleader. Since we all know of Wednesday as hump day it’s only fitting that I’m the Wednesday Writer and today that’s what we’re talking about. What’s the Wild Card for today you may be asking…well today we are debating if Ex Sex is a good or a bad thing. Now I will be the 1^st to admit that I’m guilty of this heinous crime but please let me plead me case before you find me guilty of lust. In most cases it was just an act of indulgence more than likely after a night of sipping and smoking. There were also a few horny moments I dipped back for the sake of a familiar fuck nothing more nothing less. I’m speaking of those instances where it ends up being more than an one-time thing and those feelings that once were there start to resurface the more we keep sexing the ex. Now of course I’m old enough to know that sex is just sex unless otherwise stated but when the sex is too good to stop and once upon a time you had real feelings for this person how do you ignore the feelings brought on by some good ass sex? Sure it’s easy to say just stop or remember why you aren’t together anymore or just not care but let’s be honest…the likelihood of that happening is slim who’s going to give up getting that good good especially when before that you weren’t getting any besides the pleasure your provide yourself. Now sure you can go have sex with someone you don’t have a history with…but you run the risk of whack sex…damn the stigma of a one night stand, hey in these days and times who hasn’t had one or 5. Or you can go the option I mentioned before and honestly self-gratification can only go so far for so long. So tell me folks is sex with an ex an automatic no no, a definite disaster waiting to happen or is there a way to have no feelings come into play when you decide to go fuck a former flame? I’d love to hear what you peeps have to say on this Wild Card Topic…until the next hump day thank you for letting me into your heads to make love to your minds.

Smooches

Fee B